don't worry, eat MSG.

Someone mentioned that my recent blogposts have been quite emo of late. And I do suppose so, even though I never liked (at least, not intentionally) being emo, there's just been alot on my mind of late. I suppose with employment I'd be too tired and bored to think so much then.

To be perfectly honest, I never did understood, and am still amazed by couples who never seem to quarrel or have major issues. While I certainly have alot of theories about relationships, I do think a successful relationship is a miracle in itself. One of my theories about how couples work out well is that both parties are passive people, who don't really mind most things, thus find it easier to compromise or accomodate. But that pretty much spells a bleak future for opinionated people or people who know what they want, innit?

And wouldn't it be ironically tragic if you managed to find someone who fulfils practically everything you ever wanted in a partner, only for him or her to tell you that they are looking for someone who fulfils their list as well, and it's not you?

I wonder if alot of break-ups are due to unrealistic expectations or impossible fantasies about finding a perfect one. I know too many girls who go around with fantasies of a fairytale Prince Charming. Someone who is not only good-looking, but romantic every single day of the year, and willing to give in for everything, and there for her any time any day. The other thing of course is the whole "want to marry a good boy but attracted to bad boys" syndrome. Then again, I'm sure the other gender can say the same things about guys.

A packet of instant noodles and something on the television. That's all I have as a consolation for life's mysteries.

Nowadays, that's my answer to most problems.

It's beginning to worry me.


. Arigato .